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Our top choices for Big Sur LGBT-friendly hotels

A rustic lodge with a sign reading "BIG SUR LODGE" and a signboard advertising beer flights and rotating craft.
A long dining table set for a meal in a spacious room with wooden flooring and white pillars.
A cozy lounge area with a fireplace, wooden furniture, and a television mounted on the wall.
A hotel room with a bed, wooden headboard, two bedside tables with lamps, a dresser, a window with blinds, and a framed picture above the bed.

1. Big Sur Lodge

Big Sur Lodge
Big Sur
United States
Amanda
4.630.670 ₫
5.258.597 ₫ total
includes taxes & fees
5 Oct - 6 Oct
Big Sur Lodge
A wooden pergola with steps leading to a covered area, surrounded by greenery and a pathway.
A resort with a swimming pool, outdoor seating, and a view of the surrounding forest.
A forested campsite with a yellow tent, a fire pit, and a picnic table.
A spacious living area with a fireplace, wooden beams, and a modern chandelier.

2. Alila Ventana Big Sur

Alila Ventana Big Sur
Posts
United States
Christopher G
63.216.450 ₫
72.914.543 ₫ total
includes taxes & fees
24 Sept - 25 Sept
Alila Ventana Big Sur
An outdoor deck with a fire pit, seating, and a view of the surrounding landscape.
A spacious living area with a high ceiling, wooden beams, a large window, and a dining area with a table and chairs.
A tree-lined street with a stone wall and a paved road.
A hotel room with a large bed, two bedside tables with lamps, a ceiling light, a large mirror, and a sliding glass door leading to a balcony.

3. Hidden Valley Inn

Hidden Valley Inn
Carmel Valley
Mexico
Jessica
3.316.912 ₫
3.709.414 ₫ total
includes taxes & fees
27 Sept - 28 Sept
Hidden Valley Inn
A spacious living area with a large view of the ocean, furnished with sofas, chairs, and tables.
A cozy living room with a fireplace, leather sofas, and a view of the ocean at sunset.
A corridor with large windows overlooking the ocean, wooden flooring, and green upholstered chairs.
A spacious lobby with a high ceiling, large windows, and hanging planters.

4. Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel

Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel
Monterey
United States
Katherine
5.020.895 ₫
6.734.357 ₫ total
includes taxes & fees
12 Oct - 13 Oct
Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel
A building entrance with a check-in desk, a door marked 'OFFICE,' and potted plants.
A hotel room with a bed, desk, chair, television, fireplace, and a ceiling fan.
A residential area with houses, a fenced yard, and a sunset sky.

5. Carmel Wayfarer Inn

Carmel Wayfarer Inn
Northwest Carmel
United States
Michael
4.047.154 ₫
4.837.230 ₫ total
includes taxes & fees
4 Oct - 5 Oct
Carmel Wayfarer Inn
A two-story house with a wrap-around porch, a chimney, and a well-maintained garden.
A living room with a sofa, armchair, ottoman, coffee table, fireplace, television, and a large mirror.
A spacious dining area with multiple tables and chairs, a large chandelier, and a bar area with a mirror and wine bottles.
A hotel room with a fireplace, a television, a desk with a coffee maker, and a comfortable seating area with a patterned carpet.

6. Victorian Inn

Victorian Inn
New Monterey
United States
Sandy
5.127.556 ₫
5.838.107 ₫ total
includes taxes & fees
22 Oct - 23 Oct
Victorian Inn
A patio with a round table and chairs, a large umbrella, and potted plants.
A room with a white door, a bulletin board, two chairs, a small table, a cabinet, and a window with a view of a building.
A reception area with a counter, chairs, a small table with a lamp, and a decorative plant.
A hotel room with two beds, a ceiling fan, a nightstand, a desk, and a window with blinds.

7. Clarion Collection Carmel Oaks Inn

Clarion Collection Carmel Oaks Inn
Downtown Carmel
United States
Aileen
4.976.325 ₫
6.086.078 ₫ total
includes taxes & fees
6 Oct - 7 Oct
Clarion Collection Carmel Oaks Inn
A hotel room with two beds, a television, a lamp, and a view of trees through large windows.
A hotel room with two beds, a desk, a chair, and a balcony with a view.
A restaurant with a bar area, wooden tables and chairs, hanging plants, and a spiral light fixture.
A bar area with a long counter, multiple bar stools, and a television screen mounted on the wall.

8. Travelodge by Wyndham Monterey Bay

Travelodge by Wyndham Monterey Bay
Casanova Oak Knoll
United States
Linda
2.289.320 ₫
2.652.594 ₫ total
includes taxes & fees
22 Oct - 23 Oct
Travelodge by Wyndham Monterey Bay
A multi-story hotel with balconies, a beachside location, and a view of the ocean.
A hotel room with two beds, a fireplace, a TV, and a dining area with a tray of breakfast.
A cozy living room with a fireplace, a round table with chairs, a large window with a view of the ocean, and a television mounted on the wall.
A spacious living room with a fireplace, two pink armchairs, a patterned sofa, and a marble coffee table.

9. Spindrift Inn

Spindrift Inn
New Monterey
United States
david
7.258.185 ₫
8.392.129 ₫ total
includes taxes & fees
22 Oct - 23 Oct
Spindrift Inn
A hotel room with two beds, a desk, and a chair.
A Best Western Park Crest Inn sign with a yellow building and a landscaped garden in front.
A modern living room with a sectional sofa, a coffee table, a TV, and a desk with a computer and a payment terminal.
A modern living room with a sofa, coffee table, and a laptop on a desk.

10. Best Western Park Crest Inn

Best Western Park Crest Inn
Alta Mesa
United States
Luciana
3.737.055 ₫
4.266.911 ₫ total
includes taxes & fees
7 Oct - 8 Oct
Best Western Park Crest Inn
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Frequently asked questions

How do I find an LGBTQ-friendly hotel in Big Sur?
Consider this your open invitation to pack your bags and find gay-friendly hotels in Big Sur on our website. Visitors are sure to enjoy all Big Sur has to offer including its seaside.
How many LGBTQ-friendly accommodation options will I find in Big Sur?
There are currently 2 LGBTQ-friendly lodging options in Big Sur.
What should I do while I'm visiting Big Sur?
During your trip, get out and enjoy everything Big Sur has to offer. You and your travelling companions may want to visit Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park, Pfeiffer Beach and Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park. While you're here, create some great memories of your trip with stops at McWay Falls, Los Padres National Forest and Big Sur River Inn.
What is a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur?
LGBTQ-friendly hotels, also known as gay-friendly hotels, welcome all travellers who identify as LGBTQIA+. We have worked with the International Gay and Lesbian Travel Association (IGLTA) to compile a selection of gay-friendly hotels worldwide. In Big Sur, hotels affiliated with IGLTA prioritise a diverse environment in which guests are welcomed, respected and not obliged to declare or hide their sexual orientation.
What can I expect from a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur?
Stay at a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur and get a warm welcome from a community you belong to. Many of our LGBTQ-friendly accommodation options offer concierge services that provide information about nearby LGBTQ restaurants and local events.

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